narcissistic: grandiose ideas to defend against shame
dependent: different appearances in men / women. defining yourself via a complex array of connections (i am tonya's friend). research done by robert f. bornstein
counter-dependent: i need nobody, i am fine. i never get sick, i am fine
psychopathic: i have to depend on omnipotent control. my worth depends only on what i can make happen
introjective depression: i am bad
the grief system (annihilation anxiety). mediated by serotonin
anaclytic depression: i am empty, life is meaningless
the panic system = the attachment system, ssri's don't work (separation anxiety). mediated by serotonin. fear system: benzos, downer drugs, alcohol. often people with a paranoid streak have a substance abuse disorder